I’m not in my best of moods today. Keep on thinking about an ex-client that sent me a nasty email. If you recall, he is the same guy from a previous entry called, Escort - The Nazi Queen.
This was our email exchange:
Him - “How are you *****? It’s ***** saw you last week. Seeing if your free today. Any discounts for good looking, repeat clients? Hope you are well.”
Me - “That’s a joke right?” (I specifically state on my website that bargaining with me is off limits).
Him - “No…it’s not”
Me - “No discounts…obviously :) ”
Him - “Crazy idea…but people in business offer discounts to generate revenue…could be $10 off….”
Me - “Have a goodnight. Please don’t be so rude next time you decide to contact me.”
Him - “Rude…really? I won’t be contacting you again. I get a kick out of girls that are whores that are so particular with etiquette…very touchy people. You are not a supermodel…don’t act like one.
I’ll be posting on web-boards what a touchy bitch you are. Holy fuck! Grow up and learn to how to be a business woman. Fucking Joke!!”
I didn’t respond to his last message. He isn’t worthy a response. Sure, I’m no supermodel but if I were one - he wouldn’t even get a chance to talk to me…let alone have sex with me for my set fee. LOL Men who think they are a god’s gift to women. If he thinks he’s so attractive he should be getting sex for free not asking for discounts.
So what has got me so upset over this you might ask? It is the fact that I had sex with a man who hates women of my profession. And what continues to bother me is I probably had, am and will meet more of these men. Knowing that they have sex with us, telling us what a great a time they had…while hating us deep down inside. This frightens me…this saddens me too.
*sigh*
There are assholes everywhere. Most of them are masquerading as nice people...it's hard to tell the difference.
ReplyDeleteI find it odd that the same guy who seeks out a "whore" for companionship and pleasure uses the same word as an insult.
Also...what is with the discount thing??? I worry when a gal is offering discounts...high volume means....more risk. I don't mind paying more for a good time and don't expect a discount. I have heard of girls giving regular customers birthday gifts...which is AWESOME...but I would not expect it. ALSO, in any business, if you give a discount once...it is expected always...and that is just bullshit...
Wow.. he's sure is an asshole... & I bet he does not even know it. All of that because he didnt get a damn discount? smh..
ReplyDeleteugh. what a scumbag! just go shopping or have a nice meal or do anything that makes you forget this shit. Cheer up! :)
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@ Anonymous:
ReplyDeleteThanks E :)I am in a great mood, just came back from a party :D it was fun!
@ Kenny & takelia:
ReplyDeleteThank you both :D Yea..it's unfortunate these kinda guys exist.
The first time I read this I was thinking 'I hope she doesn't even respond to his email requesting discounts'. That being said, I'm glad you didn't respond to his last response. Don't take what he said personally. Certain men are attracted to sex workers purely to offload their insecurity issues in a manner that won't be tolerated elsewhere. He sounds like he makes this a habit and probably would say the exact same thing to a Perfect 10 and every other escort he meets.
ReplyDeleteDon't take it personally or even let it make you reassess your looks, worth or anything. Not worth it. A great customer is probably waiting in the wings so keep a smile out for them ;-)
We deal with this kind of person in all professions. They think just because they are paying for a service it makes them superior, but they are not they are just a client. When they feel slighted they reach for an insult to try to remind us that they are supposedly in charge. They forget we can walk away. M are strong for walking away! That is what annoys them the most is refusing their business because it reminds them that they really don't have any power.
ReplyDeleteAs for his attempt at an insult, a supermodel is no better than anyone else just because they are pretty, rather they can be insecure, anorexic, and vapid like anyone else. His problem is he is likely unable to have normal relationships and suffers for it.
Remember the good clients, forget the bad. Hey if I could do that I would be better off too. :)
@ Eden and brit:
ReplyDeleteYes, we can't let these bastards bring us down :) I also shared all his information and what he said to me with the ladies in my home town. He's not really black list material but ladies should make up there mind if they even want to see this fool.
Thank you both ;)
I totally & wholeheartedly agree with Eden and Brit. These types of asses have no power in their everyday lives so they take it out on people who are what they deem as "lower" than them/service oriented jobs...whether that be the checkout line person, the delivery guy, the postal worker, etc.
ReplyDeleteI also think that for some guys, they have to rationalize in their head that although there is an exchange of money, you still on some level are attracted to them. So, when you possibly burst his bubble/the fantasy he had in his head, he got hit with the reality of the fact. You could take him or leave him, and you chose leave him...therefore you bruised his very fragile male ego :-)
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ReplyDelete@ Butterfly Sugar:
ReplyDeleteYes you hit the nail on the head. "...they have to rationalize in their head that although there is an exchange of money, you still on some level are attracted to them. So, when you possibly burst his bubble/the fantasy he had in his head, he got hit with the reality of the fact."
@ verifyhim:
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That's a shame since usually those type of guys don't make it to a first appointment. I have had quite a few that email me and when I respond with my rates (although I always have them posted???), they get nasty and say similar things "you're no supermodel", "you're not that hot", etc. As if I would have some kind of light bulb moment and think to myself, "yes you're, right, strange rude man, I should lower my price to whatever you deem appropriate to make you happy, even though you have already proved your a jackass". Some of the rude guys tend to think they are escort conniseurs who know everything about rates and the business, but I think it is more of a fragile ego thing, where they haven't come to terms with the fact that they are paying for sex, and then having a second ego blow of not having enough money to do it- some just can't take it and are rude. And calling you a whore? As if he is some kind of innocent party lol. Just forget it. Sometimes it bothers me too, but so many clients are so sweet and such good guys, just focus on that.
ReplyDeleteDon't take it personally or even let it make you reassess your looks, worth or anything. Not worth it. A great customer is probably waiting in the wings so keep a smile out for them :)
ReplyDeleteThe good looking guys are usually much more asshole'ish than the average or below average looking ones.. they can afford to be I guess..
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